How to Get Your Ex Back
Relationships often end in ugly ways that leave the people in the relationship regretting the end of the relationship and wishing that the other person will take them back. When relationships fade, the underlying feelings often don’t and wanting your ex to want you back is only natural. If you are in that boat and are looking to try to get your loved one to want you back then try the following steps outlined in the article.
Maintain Indirect Contact
Many people trying to get their ex to want them back will make the mistake of contacting their ex repeatedly which can be a big turnoff and lead to them appearing clingy and needy and unable to cope with the breakoff. Being hands-off and breaking all contact may make you appear as if you are indifferent or simply not interested in rekindling a romance. A middle ground is often best at first. Try seeking a mutual friend and maintaining contact that way. The mutual friend can act as a conduit between you and your ex and may be able to communicate any desires to get back together. Eventually, you can drop a hint to the mutual friend regarding how much you miss your ex and see that is communicated to them. Your ex may start thinking about you in the same way and you may be able to get your relationship going again.
Take a Leap
At some point, after a cooling off period, if the aforementioned method does not work, it is best to just make an outright attempt and see if your ex is interested. Don’t show off or try to make your ex jealous. Just discuss some fond moment and see if they are still interested in a relationship. If not, it is better to move on with your lives so you can start a new relationship, as hard as that may be to hear.
Follow us for more advice on how to make your ex want you back.
Maintain Indirect Contact
Many people trying to get their ex to want them back will make the mistake of contacting their ex repeatedly which can be a big turnoff and lead to them appearing clingy and needy and unable to cope with the breakoff. Being hands-off and breaking all contact may make you appear as if you are indifferent or simply not interested in rekindling a romance. A middle ground is often best at first. Try seeking a mutual friend and maintaining contact that way. The mutual friend can act as a conduit between you and your ex and may be able to communicate any desires to get back together. Eventually, you can drop a hint to the mutual friend regarding how much you miss your ex and see that is communicated to them. Your ex may start thinking about you in the same way and you may be able to get your relationship going again.
Take a Leap
At some point, after a cooling off period, if the aforementioned method does not work, it is best to just make an outright attempt and see if your ex is interested. Don’t show off or try to make your ex jealous. Just discuss some fond moment and see if they are still interested in a relationship. If not, it is better to move on with your lives so you can start a new relationship, as hard as that may be to hear.
Follow us for more advice on how to make your ex want you back.